secondtake Mother and Child (2009)A drama filled with crosscurrents and heavy emotional stuff, yet told in such a normal and realistic way we come to believe it. And like it. Especially the acting, with Naomi Watts and Annette Bening leading two generations (and defining the title).More than just exploring what a woman and her daughter (or her mother) need from one another (and give), this is about that first stage of becoming a mother—and deciding whether to keep the baby at all. So you see, it gets huge. And then comes the long term issue of adoption and finding, with luck, your adopted mother. The anger and released fears and the decades of doubts all flip and resolve, and this is all here.What helps all along is the imperfect characters. In fact, Watts (as the conniving, independent daughter) and Bening (as the bitter, lonely mother) are really unlikable. At first. What keeps you going is the tenderness of two of the men, played by Jimmy Smits and Samuel L. Jackson, both with wonderful subtlety. While it never becomes "father and child" at all, these men really help nurture the mother and daughter relationships.So who is this Columbian director and writer who pulled this together so well? He's had a mixed career writing and producing, and directing, including some "Six Feet Under" episodes and other spot jobs. He seems to lean toward interpersonal dramas, and has a knack for playing down sentiment while tuning into emotional impact (which is very different). It works.Some people might find the plot too controlled, too contrived (almost but not quite to the point of predictability). Others might find the restraint all a bit too realistic, so that you kind of see too much real life and not enough theater. For me it walked a great line between all these poles. Good stuff!

kesler03 The movie, Mother & Child, is about three women, Lucy, Elizabeth, and Karen, who's stories have to do with being a mother in some way. The film follows the three women and their challenges with adoption and pregnancy. Karen is played by Annette Bening. Karen is a 50- year old who is struggling over giving up her child at the age of 14. She seems to be full of hate and struggles accepting people into her life. Elizabeth is the daughter Karen, whom she gave up at 14, and has never met. Elizabeth is played by Naomi Watts. She is a persistent, controlling, carefree lawyer who just wants to do her own thing. She has a sexual relationship with her boss where she gets pregnant. While giving birth she dies, and her child is left for adoption. Lucy is played by Kerry Washington. She and her husband have been trying for a baby for four years when they decide on adoption. When her husband backs out and leaves her, she decides to continue with the adoption. This scene is very similar to the movie Juno (Reitman, J.) . Where the father is not ready to adopt but the mother is. Lucy still wants to adopt but is heartbroken when the mother backs out. A new baby girl comes up and Lucy adopts her, the baby that Elizabeth has left behind. Karen finds peace in the end with her husband, but becoming a grandmother-figure to Lucy's child, her biological granddaughter. The theme of the film is about a mother's love. The quote used at the end of the movie and the beginning is, "it's the time spent together that counts, not blood" (Garcia, R.). This is true to the film because in the end, all three women dealt with the adoption process and loving a child that is not there, or giving up a child that is their own and still loving it. Lucy struggled when she adopted her new baby. She said that she cannot love her because she is not hers. She felt that someone just handed her a baby and she was not connected. When Lucy's mother stepped in to help her, she told her to step up because she is that child's mother. Lucy learned to love the child as if it were her own. Karen struggled her whole life with giving her child up for adoption; she felt that the world hated her for giving up her baby. She wrote to her daughter every day, and dreamed about her every night. Once she came to terms that what she did nearly 40 years ago was right for her baby, she began to feel love again. We saw her grow as a person.The angle of the camera was excellent. I felt that each shop captured the emotions the characters where feeling. The camera was not just capturing the scene but the expressions and the way the characters felt. There were not significant lighting effects I noticed except for a few. When Karen sleeps with her ex-boyfriend, whom she had the child with; the lighting and scene became blurry; almost as signifying that she should forget the past because it is all a blur from years ago. The producers did an excellent job at connecting the story lines together and becoming one. Although it started out as three separate women struggling separate lives, in the end they were all connected by the love of adoption and being a mother. References Boggs, J. & Petrie, J. (2008). The art of watching films. New York, NY: The McGraw-Hill Garcia, R. (Director). (2009). Mother and Child (Motion Picture). Reitman, J. (Director). (2007). Juno (Motion Picture).

phd_travel There is some excellent acting and very realistic dialog from this interesting and involving movie about mothers and daughters and adoption. The dividing lines between race and blood ties are explored here. This is an intense and human drama.Annette Benning delivers a great performance. She really got a bitter caustic expression perfectly. It is interesting to see the lovely Naomi Watts playing a damaged character.After all the depressing things earlier I wish Naomi's character had lived and there could have been a reunion between mother and daughter.Overall worth a watch for the great performances but feels a bit sad.

Claudio Carvalho In Los Angeles, the therapist Karen (Annette Bening) is a bitter woman that nurses her terminal mother Nora with the support of her maid Tracy (Carla Gallo) that has a little daughter. Karen misses her unknown daughter that she gave for adoption thirty-seven years ago when she was fourteen years old. Her new colleague Paco (Jimmy Smits), who is a widower, is a gentle man and courts the unpleasant Karen.The bakery owner Lucy (Kerry Washington) wishes desperately to adopt a child since she can not have a baby but her husband Joseph (David Ramsey) is not supportive to the idea.The efficient lawyer Elizabeth (Naomi Watts), who is Karen's daughter, is an independent and promiscuous woman that does not want to have a baby and has tubal ligation. When she joins the law firm of Paul (Samuel Jackson), she has a love affair with him and becomes his mistress.When Nora passes away, she feels a great need to know Elizabeth. She marries Paco and his daughter Maria, who is a religious woman, convinces her to seek out Elizabeth. When Lucy meets the single mother Ray (Shareeka Epps), who is a demanding woman, Joseph leaves her since he does not want to raise a foster child. When Elizabeth finds that she is pregnant, she quits her job in Paul's firm and works as secretary in a small company. Their lives will be entwined in very dramatic situations."Mother and Child" is a powerful drama about different views and feelings about motherhood. The therapist Karen has never overcome the loss of her daughter for adoption. The infertile baker Lucy wants to be a mother and her desire costs her marriage. The lawyer Elizabeth is traumatized by her childhood and is an independent woman that does not want to have a baby and ironically gets pregnant. In the end, there is redemption with the second chance for Karen. My vote is seven.Title (Brazil): "Destinos Ligados" ("Connected Destinies")