lovelunajc I loved this movie...my family is mixed-race also; and I found the issues of fear of intimacy and the frequent awkwardness of dating well portrayed. I thought the dancing older woman in the wedding reception was cool. It felt like the process of getting to know other people belonged to all generations. The young leads were sexy and talented; can't wait to see more of them in the future. I do wish IMDb would list all the songs from the movie, as a soundtrack from the movie has not been released, and I especially enjoyed the songs at the wedding reception. Finally, all the talk about race issues was respectful and timely.

barrywilliams993 The movie is plainly offensive to both whites and blacks. I found many of the "jokes" to be racist towards white and playing upon stereotypes. The same sort of thing in a "white" movie would draw howls of protest! What amazes me is the fact that there is a paltry number of "review" and the majority of them have glowing praise for this vapid piece of tripe. Frankly, I think the fix is in! I think it is an effort by the "reviewers" to puff up another lame black "comedy".For me, the only thing that was missing was the black guy in a fat woman suit.SHEESH!

cddickens Why 9 out of 10? Because we don't see enough depictions of Black men like this in the movies. This movie won't win any awards, Jay is a nerd and goofy, but this is a really cool movie. I am so tired of all the romantic comedy movies going to the same "Adonis" white guy or the same goof-ball comedic white guy. Black men are more complex than all the ghetto-bangin' bull that we always get on screen. There were no guns, no woman got called, "bitch" and no scenes of police arrests. Yes, this movie is entertaining and worth giving a view. The title is more of a commentary on the "misfit" Black guy who is really good at the core, but just lost in the shuffle of stereotypes that seek to define him without giving him the benefit of the doubt. Stereotypes that he feels that he must maintain in order to have a sense of his own Blackness. In the end he has to decide whether to cross that chasm and go for something true or stay stuck in his own comfortable adolescent musings. Give this movie a try and leave your preconceptions at the door.

antsmiff Racist rubbish. It portrays white girls in a very negative way. It's very sad that these sort of films are allowed.If the title was " I'm Through With Black Girls" and portrayed them in a negative way then all hell would break loose. In actual fact, it wouldn't have been made.It's becoming apparent recently that it's OK for good ole "whitey" to be the butt of jokes or typecast as being not as cool or good as other races.Keep smiling white people cause it's acceptable for racist abuse to be used on us!